Do you find
that little things in life get under your skin and annoy you, such as
when
someone keeps you waiting, or forgets an appointment with you?
If you resent
having to do all the work
in your relationships then you are probably
trapped
in a vicious cycle of anger and disappointment.
You may try
to numb
your anger by eating, using
alcohol, drugs, pills or exercise. These short term solutions soon wear
off and
you are left feeling defeated.
Anger doesn’t
have to get in your way, or hold you back. In fact anger is a clue that
you may
be allowing yourself to be taken advantage
of.
You can use
your anger
as a motivating fuel to get the respect you want, and build
more
satisfying
relationships.
You may not know how to do this in a way that
is to
your advantage. I can help you manage anger in a
productive way.
I can show you
how to
1.
Be assertive without losing friends or
upsetting loved ones.
2. Communicate
your anger in a way that will get heard rather than ignored.
3. Combine your
intelligence and motivating anger to make sound judgments.
4. Manage
anger and
turn the energy into motivation for achieving your goals.
5. Take
the heat out of your hot
buttons and use
it as fuel to create respectful connections.
6. Break the connection
between a maddening experience
and
your sabotaging reaction.
7. React with
greater control and clarity when your buttons get pushed.
8. Identify and
deal with the issues that trigger your irritations and frustrations.
9. Recover
faster from the paralyzing grip of
anger and move towards the purpose of your life.
10. Manage
your anger to protect rather than sabotage yourself.
If you want to be in the driver's
seat instead of just going along for the bumpy ride
On the other hand, If you prefer to
remain hijacked by the daily aggravations
and frustrations of life,
here are
some of the consequences you can expect.
Unchanneled
anger and frustration
can affect the quality of your relationships, your
physical and emotional health, and your ability to function effectively
and
productively.
1. Intense
anger blocks access to your intelligence.
2. The quality
of your judgment is compromised.
3. Your
intended messages is drowned out by indignation and
outrage.
4. People tune
out when you come at them from a place of
anger.
5. You end up
frustrated, lonely and isolated.
6. Living with
built up resentment causes stress overload.
7. Excess
stress leads to weight gain, impotency,
disrupted
sleep and chronic fatigue. You may eat more, put on weight,
and lose interest in sex.
8. Exhaustion
slows you down and weakens your immune
system. Digestive
tract diseases including bloating,
irritable bowel syndrome and ulcerative colitis are
some of the signs
of a weakened immune response.
9. You may
develop skin breakouts and hair loss.
10. You may also get frequent tension headaches, migraines, sciatica or back, neck and shoulder pain.

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